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Hi girlies, Have you ever met or matched with a guy you were sooooo interested in that the first date jitters were worse than 10 shots of espresso? I've felt that way before. Sometimes from being intimidated by their success, sometimes being starstruck by their looks. How can we feel less nervous? My take? Go on a lot of dates with different guys. Get some rejection therapy from when you stutter or aren't quite yourself. If one date was awkward, focus on relaxing the ne

Hi girls, Some advice says "opposites attract" and some says "like goes with like." What way is right?? Well... both!❤️ Like attracts like when it comes to values. You're someone who wants a long-term partner, like lifelong. When you encounter someone who's looking for a quick fling, you're repelled! Their values aren't similar to yours. And when do opposites attract? When it comes to polarity. Like how you might love the idea of a man strong enough to pick you up and to

It seems a lot of women wonder... "How do I get him to commit to me?" "How do I get him to propose?" I'll tell you a story and you can guess the secret.😉 When I met my boyfriend, he was absolutely enamored with me, hehe! From early on, he said he had the sense I was the one. He's showed up every day since we met, without fail, to support me and love me and show me he's the man for me🥰 Oftentimes, at night, he tells me "I want to spend my life with you, baby." Today, h

Welcome new girlsss! And hello my girlies who have been here from the start❤️ I recently made a post about ghosting and got a question that I actually had planned to answer in another video: "What do I do if someone who ghosted tries to come back after months/years?"👻 My answer is this. Are you stable and happy enough that it won't matter whether they stay or leave this time? If the answer is no and you know you'd be devastated by them leaving again, do not let them back

Hi goddesses, If you hold high standards or want to, you WILL face criticism as a woman . Maybe you've experienced this already...😅 "That's unrealistic" "Wanting your life partner to be financially secure makes you a golddigger" "You should just accept whatever treatment a guy gives as long as it's not abuse" There's a helpful saying for handling this and I've included it in my video on standards. https://youtu.be/k7WSEaENLpI?si=F5okUE5KIx_R3sy8 Coming up for October,

Hi lovelies, YOU could have standard blind spots. It's what happens when you have some idea of what you want, but not the full picture. For example, Janie wants a job that pays $100k a year. She has standards that filter only for jobs that pay that much and above. She gets a new job making $105k! But then she realizes they don't offer great healthcare and she was better off financially before. Janie had a standard blind spot... she needed not just a salary standard, but

If you're new here, welcome! I've got a triple topic post for you today. Starting off with the "Ask Aimee" of the week: "What's the biggest thing you look for and avoid when it comes to dating/relationships?" The biggest red flag to avoid is a selfish man .🚩If he'd put his wants over his loved ones needs, he's a risk to you. If he values what is fun and what is easy over what is right, he'll always be wrong for you. If he refuses to see and fix his mistakes because doing

Hi Aimee, Today I'm ✨very✨ excited to announce the release of my first YouTube longer-form video: How to Stop Crashing Out https://youtu.be/14JTdwpxnss This video is inspired by the rise of the term "crash out" and my personal experience with "spiraling." If you've had times where negative thinking got the best of you, this video is for YOU! I've included 4 types of crashouts, what to do about each type, and affirmations to reset your thoughts. I would love to hear if i

Hi gorgeous girls, So today I got a question on one of my videos... "Do you navigate differently with different responses from a guy? How do you know his intentions?" I responded by telling her about a guy I went on a date with. He planned a great first date, drove to my area, opened my doors, paid for our dinner. All good things. He later asked for a 2nd date but didn't let me know of a plan, just that he wanted to see me... TOMORROW.😮 "Does he just really want to see m

Hi beautiful, Hi Aimee, Today, the topic of meeting guys who aren't what you want for yourself was on my heart. I was watching a show (Desperate Housewives haha!) and one character was facing the dating scene after having been in a longggg relationship. She went to a bar and found a bunch of guys who were NOT what she wanted. Part of the issue was LOCATION. She never went out to bars, so why would the man who's a match for her be at a bar? My match was busy with work or

Hi girls, Have you ever experienced dating burnout? I know I sure have... especially when dating using dating apps. After about 6 months on Hinge, I found myself tired of the hearts, comments, and matches. Even though I was meeting great guys, I knew I still hadn't met the right one. 😅 Here's how I dealt with my burnout: I was open to taking a break. I happened to meet my now boyfriend when I was just about to take a break. Had I not met him, I would have taken a break t