Ask Aimee: What do I do if someone who ghosted comes back into my life?

Welcome new girlsss! And hello my girlies who have been here from the start❤️

I recently made a post about ghosting and got a question that I actually had planned to answer in another video:

"What do I do if someone who ghosted tries to come back after months/years?"👻

My answer is this. Are you stable and happy enough that it won't matter whether they stay or leave this time? If the answer is no and you know you'd be devastated by them leaving again, do not let them back into your life.

If the answer is yes, the choice is yours.

I actually had this happen years ago, so I speak to you with love from experience. I had a guy ghost me and reappear years later. We grew close, I grew feelings, he ghosted AGAIN!😅

Today, I would not allow someone who disrespected me in the past to re-enter my life. When you are stable and happy, you tend to want people who bring that same energy!

xoxo,

Aimeelotus