Ask Aimee: Opposites attract? Or similar attracts?

Hi girls,

Some advice says "opposites attract" and some says "like goes with like." What way is right?? Well... both!❤️

Like attracts like when it comes to values. You're someone who wants a long-term partner, like lifelong. When you encounter someone who's looking for a quick fling, you're repelled! Their values aren't similar to yours.

And when do opposites attract? When it comes to polarity. Like how you might love the idea of a man strong enough to pick you up and to protect you. And you like the idea of being smaller than your man and feeling you can relax because you're safe with him. Chances are, he likes the idea of being strong and manly while you're being relaxed and safe too.

That's polarity and it helps relationships feel juicy instead of like a platonic friendship.✨

xoxo,

Aimeelotus