Ask Aimee: Nervous on dates?

Hi girlies,

Have you ever met or matched with a guy you were sooooo interested in that the first date jitters were worse than 10 shots of espresso?

I've felt that way before. Sometimes from being intimidated by their success, sometimes being starstruck by their looks.

How can we feel less nervous?

My take? Go on a lot of dates with different guys.

Get some rejection therapy from when you stutter or aren't quite yourself. If one date was awkward, focus on relaxing the next date. 🧘‍♀️

Tell yourself for the date you're going to try leaning back and focusing on if you like them. Maybe you find "I shouldn't have felt so nervous, they're not right for me anyways." 😄

Going on dates with different people can also help you take certain kinds of people off pedestals and to start seeing they're all just people.❤️

xoxo,

Aimeelotus