Ask Aimee: Biggest green flag and red flag?

If you're new here, welcome!

I've got a triple topic post for you today.

Starting off with the "Ask Aimee" of the week: "What's the biggest thing you look for and avoid when it comes to dating/relationships?"

The biggest red flag to avoid is a selfish man.🚩If he'd put his wants over his loved ones needs, he's a risk to you. If he values what is fun and what is easy over what is right, he'll always be wrong for you. If he refuses to see and fix his mistakes because doing so would hurt his feelings, that's selfishness in action.

The biggest thing I look for is shared values. Nothing makes for a beautiful, lasting relationship like valuing the same things and being on the same path together.💖 Values = your views on kids/no kids and how many, the lifestyle you want, roles in the relationship, money mindsets, religious views, etc.

Last week I shared my video on "How to Stop Crashing Out!"

https://youtu.be/14JTdwpxnss

Coming soon to YouTube is a video on "Standards: How to Make, Hold and Communicate Them."

We're talking

🌟How to create standards that get you the right relationship

🌟High vs. low standards

🌟What happens when standards are mismatched

🌟How to be a match for what you want

🌟Standing by your standards (even in the face of criticism)

xoxo,

Aimeelotus