Ask Aimee: How do I know his intentions?

Hi gorgeous girls,

So today I got a question on one of my videos...

"Do you navigate differently with different responses from a guy? How do you know his intentions?"

I responded by telling her about a guy I went on a date with. He planned a great first date, drove to my area, opened my doors, paid for our dinner. All good things. He later asked for a 2nd date but didn't let me know of a plan, just that he wanted to see me... TOMORROW.😮

"Does he just really want to see me or is he looking to spend time with a beautiful girl without having to put effort into planning? Or is it a test to see if I accept last minute?"

I asked him to pay for my pedicure so I could be ready for such a sudden date, he removed himself from my dating pool right after.

I remember my friends thought I was crazy for asking that of him but deep down I knew something...

SERIOUSNESS IS SHOWN THROUGH INVESTMENT. Of time, energy, money, thoughtfulness.💖 A man who's really interested in getting to know you? He has no issue investing time, energy, money. A man who's looking to get you for the least effort, money, time? He's turned off by the idea of giving to you.

That guy's reaction showed he wasn't just sooo eager to spend time with me and court me. His intention was to see me with minimal effort.

Today faced with the same situation, I'd let a guy go for asking for a 2nd date last-minute with no plan. But my old way still gave me the answer I needed and it taught me a very valuable lesson: Genuine interest = investment.🌟

xoxo,

Aimeelotus